JoannD wrote: DW and others - I keep clicking on stuff but can't seem to find the magic door.
How does one start a blog that is hooked to this community? I'm one of the most computer-ignorant people I know (but I did figure out how to list stuff on eBay, so I don't think I'm entirely hopeless - just need a little help :-)
All you need to do is start your own blog. Go to blogger.com
If you already have a google account, then just go to your account settings, click on blogger, and follow the steps to set up a blog.
Once you have done your first post, send a link to me (post a comment here with it on it) and I will then add you to the list over on the right. And you can create a list on your blog and add any blog to it that you want to follow.
I know there's a way to do a blog ring, but I think this is just as easy. I click on all the blogs every couple of days and read what's going on with everyone else.
You can also subscribe to this blog to follow it
After you have done your first blog post, then go to dashboard, settings, site feed. You can burn your posts to feedburner and that will get it out on the net for others to find. I think the key there is to use the labels block in the bottom of each post. I keep forgetting to do that!
You can then start in with all the add ons on the far right hand side. I let people search my blog, subscribe, I have other blogs of spouses, the blog archive is automatic.
I think allowing someone to google search your blog is important. If they are looking for something specific, they can find it easier that way.
I also use adsense. Don't ask me about that! I'm not sure it's set up and I haven't figured out how to check it! LOL!!! I need time to research that one, but the ads have no problem showing up, that's for sure!
OK, I know that all sounds pretty simple, but it is. For me, blogging is the best thing ever. It's a record of what he does, my reactions to it....but mostly a place to vent so I don't get mad at him in person.....I just get mad here.
Like right now. I came home from teaching a craft class. The kitchen was absolutely filthy. The TV was on blare with some sci fi shooting movie on. I cannot stand that sound - guns going off non-stop. It just puts me in a foul mood. So I came into my studio, put my headsets on and am venting here. So I don't go scream my head off at him. But I mean seriously - in the middle of a work day, he's watching movies? If they fire him I won't be surprised at all. This is the really bad thing about working from home.....him being such a non-compliant diabetic - he's an absolute pro at telling a great lie about whatever he needs to cover!!!
Now, off to create something fun and wonderful while I listen to some soothing tunes on my ipod. Hmmm....maybe ipods should be mandatory for spouses of diabetics!
DW
Thursday, June 09, 2011
Tuesday, June 07, 2011
holey shirts
Hubby pokes his insulin shots directly through his shirt into his stomach. He says that it helps the pain of the needles. Of course, blood then gets on the inside of his shirt and stains it.....and those tiny little needle jabs break through the fabric and with each wash, tend to break down the fibers in the shirt until little holes start to appear.
I did not know he was doing this until I started finding holey shirts. I refuse to let him wear them - I toss them out. I truly hate the fact that he has resorted to this. But when I look at his stomach, it is simply one gigantic bruise of black, blue, green, purple, yellow, and orange. So I suppose that if he thinks this insulates the pain, it's a small price to pay.
He now has to do his own laundry. I'm not going to presoak to get the blood stains out. He can figure out how to do that. And if he comes downstairs in the morning with a stained, holey shirt, I will tell him that if we are going out, he will have to change.
Maybe I should just let him go out looking like a hobo! I could just tell people I married a holey hobo!
OK, one must laugh at least once a day to get through this.
I ended up sleeping on the sofa because the smells in our room were just rancid. I didn't sleep a lot, so I'm not moving so well today. May just take the entire day off. After I go clean up the bathroom. You know, there is just nothing I love better than cleaning a toilet that someone else has messed up with their uncontrollable diarrhea. Nope - I am so looking forward to that task...I just can't tell you!
Blood stained holey shirts, diarrhea splattered toilets, and the acetone smell -rank fruity smell permeating the house at the moment....
and yet diabetics get mad at ME when I tell a young person to run away rather than marry into this? They get angry with me when I tell them that if they are married, don't bring children into this situation? They deny that any of this is ever going to happen to them?
Maybe I should write more about the grossness of this disease. But first - I have to go clean toilets, open windows, air out the house!!!
DW
I did not know he was doing this until I started finding holey shirts. I refuse to let him wear them - I toss them out. I truly hate the fact that he has resorted to this. But when I look at his stomach, it is simply one gigantic bruise of black, blue, green, purple, yellow, and orange. So I suppose that if he thinks this insulates the pain, it's a small price to pay.
He now has to do his own laundry. I'm not going to presoak to get the blood stains out. He can figure out how to do that. And if he comes downstairs in the morning with a stained, holey shirt, I will tell him that if we are going out, he will have to change.
Maybe I should just let him go out looking like a hobo! I could just tell people I married a holey hobo!
OK, one must laugh at least once a day to get through this.
I ended up sleeping on the sofa because the smells in our room were just rancid. I didn't sleep a lot, so I'm not moving so well today. May just take the entire day off. After I go clean up the bathroom. You know, there is just nothing I love better than cleaning a toilet that someone else has messed up with their uncontrollable diarrhea. Nope - I am so looking forward to that task...I just can't tell you!
Blood stained holey shirts, diarrhea splattered toilets, and the acetone smell -rank fruity smell permeating the house at the moment....
and yet diabetics get mad at ME when I tell a young person to run away rather than marry into this? They get angry with me when I tell them that if they are married, don't bring children into this situation? They deny that any of this is ever going to happen to them?
Maybe I should write more about the grossness of this disease. But first - I have to go clean toilets, open windows, air out the house!!!
DW
Monday, June 06, 2011
JoannD has questions for you
she wrote:
I wonder if my DH could have had blood-sugar issues for years and not known it. He has a predictable pattern of being the nicest guy in the world until about 3:00 or 3:30 in the afternoon, and then he gets short-tempered and irritable. This shows up especially while driving - he becomes the King of Road Rage - being belligerent as all get out toward other drivers and then not having a clue why some of them come back at him. Trouble is, he also carries a loaded firearm and is willing to escalate the quarrel. If I can, I try to grab the guncase and try to put it between my seat and door, where he can't reach it, because he is clearly irrational at those times. I can't tell you how terrifying this is. A confrontation between two testosterone-poisoned males (and hey, I'm a grandma myself, and while I am a competent shot with a firearm, I'd just as soon not have to shoot anybody.) Why do they have to get crazy like this???
Well, I have a couple of questions first. Has he been diagnosed as diabetic? Does he test his sugar? You probably need to get him to test on a regular schedule. If you think he's going low at 3 pm, then I'd suggest he test at 8 am, 11:30 am, 3 pm, 6:30 pm and bedtime. If you can get him to do that for a week, you could probably determine a pattern and relate it to his behavior.
Road Rage is terrible. My hubby is equally guilty of it. I have been doing most of the driving for the last 2 years. I just refuse to ride with him behind the wheel. Some states do not allow diabetics to have drivers license. I think that would be great for every state. If your state doesn't have that law, you could always advocate for it.
then she wrote:
I honestly think that overeating is a form of addiction. My DH watched his father die of (among other things) uncontrollable insulin-dependent diabetes - the man smoked like a bad chimney, was a SEVERE alcoholic, and absolutely refused to comply with any sort of diet. My DH has resolutely stayed away from tobacco and alcohol all of his life (he says of alcohol "I'm afraid I might LIKE it.') But his main vice is food, and boy, does he shovel it in. He has multiple health problems stemming directly from being 100+ pounds overweight but short of putting him on a desert island somewhere, I don't know how to cut off his access to excess food. Some of you have commented on how your husband's personality and/or temper changes if his sugar is out of whack. My husband is normally one of the kindest, sweetest people I know, but when he is stressed or overtired, it's almost as if another entity takes over and he becomes angry, aggressive, and nasty to the point of viciousness, especially when driving. I guess I'll have to figure out how to set up my own blog so that others can comment on it. I really want to get some feedback from the rest of you because this is all new and bewildering to me.
My thoughts are that too much of anything can kill you. Too much alcohol, smoking, eating, sugar.....probably doesn't matter what it is, if it's done to excess, it could kill you.
And "we" probably can't cut of their access. After all, these are grown men who need to make their own choices - even if they might die from those choices. Did I mention here that my sister's husband's brother just died from alcohol at the age of 51? You might think that was a wake up call to my sister's husband who drinks non-stop. Nope - he just drank more at the funeral.
To some extent, I think diabetes is just like any other thing out there. You don't control your glucose levels, you will have all kinds of side effects. You might die. You don't control drinking, smoking, eating....same end result.
Some of us refer to a syndrome called the "roller coaster ride" where our spouses emotions seem to always be up or down, high or low, sweet or angry, excited or depressed....and it's the fact that we never seem to know where we are on that ride. We can't predict when the next high or low will be. And our spouses seem to have different reactions. When my hubby is high, he is agitated, nervous, jittery, irritated. When he goes low, he is very argumentative, combative, belligerent. And somewhere in between the highs and lows, I get glimpses of that guy I fell in love with.
Anyone else want to make input?
Blogging is wonderful. It's therapy. It's a record of what happens. It can provide a history of the prognosis of the disease. My blog has been helpful in finding dates of when issues first started. It's even answered questions for doctors. No, hubby still doesn't know about it. I just said, "I have kept some notes, let me go look at them and see what I can find."
So, hubby has now had diarrhea for 10 days. He refuses to go see a doctor. He is experimenting by eliminating various foods. He stopped ice cream, cheese, milk as he thinks it might be lactose intolerance. His glucose is still testing around 220. He still has the horrible fruity smell about him. I got up this morning and sprayed febreeze all over the house. Thank goodness for that stuff!!! It does tone down the smell! But I have had my moments this weekend when I thought I would get sick from the smell. Guess I'll stock up on those plug-in air fresheners at the grocer tomorrow.
I spent the day today teaching 2 friends of mine how to do ebay. One is age 70, the other is age 52. Neither knew how to download a photo from the camera to the computer. Neither had ever edited a photo on the computer. Neither had previously set up or used a paypal account. It was a very long, very frustrating day, but at the end of the day, each had listed one item for sale on ebay. It taught me that there are some things worse than diabetes! LOLOL!!!
DW
I wonder if my DH could have had blood-sugar issues for years and not known it. He has a predictable pattern of being the nicest guy in the world until about 3:00 or 3:30 in the afternoon, and then he gets short-tempered and irritable. This shows up especially while driving - he becomes the King of Road Rage - being belligerent as all get out toward other drivers and then not having a clue why some of them come back at him. Trouble is, he also carries a loaded firearm and is willing to escalate the quarrel. If I can, I try to grab the guncase and try to put it between my seat and door, where he can't reach it, because he is clearly irrational at those times. I can't tell you how terrifying this is. A confrontation between two testosterone-poisoned males (and hey, I'm a grandma myself, and while I am a competent shot with a firearm, I'd just as soon not have to shoot anybody.) Why do they have to get crazy like this???
Well, I have a couple of questions first. Has he been diagnosed as diabetic? Does he test his sugar? You probably need to get him to test on a regular schedule. If you think he's going low at 3 pm, then I'd suggest he test at 8 am, 11:30 am, 3 pm, 6:30 pm and bedtime. If you can get him to do that for a week, you could probably determine a pattern and relate it to his behavior.
Road Rage is terrible. My hubby is equally guilty of it. I have been doing most of the driving for the last 2 years. I just refuse to ride with him behind the wheel. Some states do not allow diabetics to have drivers license. I think that would be great for every state. If your state doesn't have that law, you could always advocate for it.
then she wrote:
I honestly think that overeating is a form of addiction. My DH watched his father die of (among other things) uncontrollable insulin-dependent diabetes - the man smoked like a bad chimney, was a SEVERE alcoholic, and absolutely refused to comply with any sort of diet. My DH has resolutely stayed away from tobacco and alcohol all of his life (he says of alcohol "I'm afraid I might LIKE it.') But his main vice is food, and boy, does he shovel it in. He has multiple health problems stemming directly from being 100+ pounds overweight but short of putting him on a desert island somewhere, I don't know how to cut off his access to excess food. Some of you have commented on how your husband's personality and/or temper changes if his sugar is out of whack. My husband is normally one of the kindest, sweetest people I know, but when he is stressed or overtired, it's almost as if another entity takes over and he becomes angry, aggressive, and nasty to the point of viciousness, especially when driving. I guess I'll have to figure out how to set up my own blog so that others can comment on it. I really want to get some feedback from the rest of you because this is all new and bewildering to me.
My thoughts are that too much of anything can kill you. Too much alcohol, smoking, eating, sugar.....probably doesn't matter what it is, if it's done to excess, it could kill you.
And "we" probably can't cut of their access. After all, these are grown men who need to make their own choices - even if they might die from those choices. Did I mention here that my sister's husband's brother just died from alcohol at the age of 51? You might think that was a wake up call to my sister's husband who drinks non-stop. Nope - he just drank more at the funeral.
To some extent, I think diabetes is just like any other thing out there. You don't control your glucose levels, you will have all kinds of side effects. You might die. You don't control drinking, smoking, eating....same end result.
Some of us refer to a syndrome called the "roller coaster ride" where our spouses emotions seem to always be up or down, high or low, sweet or angry, excited or depressed....and it's the fact that we never seem to know where we are on that ride. We can't predict when the next high or low will be. And our spouses seem to have different reactions. When my hubby is high, he is agitated, nervous, jittery, irritated. When he goes low, he is very argumentative, combative, belligerent. And somewhere in between the highs and lows, I get glimpses of that guy I fell in love with.
Anyone else want to make input?
Blogging is wonderful. It's therapy. It's a record of what happens. It can provide a history of the prognosis of the disease. My blog has been helpful in finding dates of when issues first started. It's even answered questions for doctors. No, hubby still doesn't know about it. I just said, "I have kept some notes, let me go look at them and see what I can find."
So, hubby has now had diarrhea for 10 days. He refuses to go see a doctor. He is experimenting by eliminating various foods. He stopped ice cream, cheese, milk as he thinks it might be lactose intolerance. His glucose is still testing around 220. He still has the horrible fruity smell about him. I got up this morning and sprayed febreeze all over the house. Thank goodness for that stuff!!! It does tone down the smell! But I have had my moments this weekend when I thought I would get sick from the smell. Guess I'll stock up on those plug-in air fresheners at the grocer tomorrow.
I spent the day today teaching 2 friends of mine how to do ebay. One is age 70, the other is age 52. Neither knew how to download a photo from the camera to the computer. Neither had ever edited a photo on the computer. Neither had previously set up or used a paypal account. It was a very long, very frustrating day, but at the end of the day, each had listed one item for sale on ebay. It taught me that there are some things worse than diabetes! LOLOL!!!
DW
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