tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24545697.post7591611138938873..comments2023-10-17T05:32:59.887-07:00Comments on Wife of a Diabetic: Back to work way too soon!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24545697.post-6612974257813513652011-04-11T02:20:47.229-07:002011-04-11T02:20:47.229-07:00Sounds like a big decision to make. At least you ...Sounds like a big decision to make. At least you can take comfort that it is not just your hubby . . . I agree with Tom's Wife on this. But it is definitely time to figure it out, and soon. Hang in there, and I am sure that with your help, he'll make the right decision.<br />LillyLillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00850646712565307929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24545697.post-84094035905731784152011-04-09T15:34:53.393-07:002011-04-09T15:34:53.393-07:00You are amazing! Have your cake and eat it too...H...You are amazing! Have your cake and eat it too...HUGSLynn Barryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04837350761151318478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24545697.post-58275128372770972512011-04-08T18:49:16.809-07:002011-04-08T18:49:16.809-07:00Oh dear, DW! I am sorry to hear these difficult ch...Oh dear, DW! I am sorry to hear these difficult choices. Sure do relate: I have obsessed about these things off and on for years as the diabetes chipped away at his health, his job, his hobbies, and his ability to enjoy life. Last year we bought a little camper trailer and many times I've comforted myself with the thought that if we lose everything else, at least we can move into the camper, lol!<br />I used to swing between "get me outta here" and "stand by my man" - I am actually alot calmer since deciding a few years ago that I'm here for the duration, come what may. <br />I don't want to know myself as the kind of woman that would leave a dying man. I WISH I didn't know myself as the kind of woman that would stay with a man who kept making choices to die...but that boat has left the dock. I stayed, and I'm staying, because I want to. I love him.<br />And I wish I had some carrot cake! :-)<br />AgnusAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24545697.post-33734533007236038572011-04-07T18:29:31.048-07:002011-04-07T18:29:31.048-07:00We were just waiting for the other shoe to drop......We were just waiting for the other shoe to drop...<br />its really awful<br />if there is any "good" news its that this is a company-wide thing and not just your hubby<br /><br />it was clear that you were really exhausted when you wrote<br /><br />you will also figure this out<br />you have been working on it for a while -- he just didn't realize it<br /><br />you are strong, wonderful, and there<br /><br />just have confidence in yourself and don't give in too much to his emotion -- you know what to do....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24545697.post-32220028705631318892011-04-07T12:36:31.286-07:002011-04-07T12:36:31.286-07:00As if you didn't already have enough to deal w...As if you didn't already have enough to deal with. <br /><br />So many blessings come in disguise. I pray this situation will turn out to be one.<br /><br />S<br /><br />BTW: I like #3 too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com